Dear friends,
From past few days I have been seeing many people, writing blogs on different issues..so I thought of giving it a try, but it took me almost 15 days to decide first of all what to write , where to start… At last I decided to write on the concept of “Personality development “..even though it’s a little boring concept but still I thought it would help atleast few guys…tried to explain in a simple way… so I am going a head with my first post named “Road to Success”. Enjoy reading 
Change your thinking:
We always act according to our thoughts, so the first thing which we need to do is to change our thinking attitude from negative to positive. Don’t ever permit negative thoughts to take over your heart. If you have low self esteem, you will act as if you are unworthy and on no account. Most of the time we waste our time by thinking about stupid things, if we can just divert at least 20-30% of time towards our aim definitely we can bring a change and achieve the goal.
Be Mr. Positive:
Start thinking positively, the rest will follow but for that first the old needs to be cleared out before space for the new and better can arrive. Our life is bombarded with lot of thoughts. First we need to change our attitude and mindset. Important thing is we need to be patient during the process of change because change is always messy and we will be uncomfortable in the middle of the process. Refusing to change and grow is the most unsafe place you could be (As you all know that it takes time for the boy to get back to normal condition, if his girl friend leaves him (vice versa). Few will be thinking about her only, spoiling their mood, health etc etc , at the end of the day this guy is not going to get anything. Few will try to get back to normal condition as soon as possible and will go a head with their lives and few who are over positive will be very happy and start searching new substitutes) so its up to you to decide in which category you want to be.
There is no point in thinking about past and spoiling your future and you yourself becoming a hindrance for your growth.
You can’t craft a superb future by remaining stuck in your past. So it is vital that we renew our minds and think positively.
Renew your thinking life:
Change your way of thinking; do not stick to traditional thinking. Our thoughts are always a lamp to our feet to guide us to successful living. By just thinking positive and being confident only 70% of your work is done, so we need to just work for the remaining 30%. It’s very simple.
Most of the people think that you need luck factor in the process of success, but only 5-10% is lucky in their way to success. Stop thinking about that 5-10% people and start thinking about the remaining 90%. To become a successful person is not so easy.
Success doesn’t just happen because someone’s stars line up.
Success both in business and personal life is something that is consciously created.
Don’t worry if you fail in the initial stage, you learn to work by falling, you learn to lead by trying, but every misstep brings you closer to the perfect step. Anything that can go wrong will go wrong, so don’t worry about the problems you face during this process.
Problem has a life span:
Every problem has a life span, there is no permanent problem, we are the one to determine how long that situation will remain in our life, till then problem will keep staring at us in the face until we are ready to face and attack.
Keep in mind that difficult days never last, but strong people always do. Hard conditions are nothing more than chances to become heroic.
Every problem has a solution:
Every problem has a solution, for the time being we may not have solution but that does not mean that there will never be one, we need to just try to find out the solution, the moment we get the answer, it’s no longer a problem for us. You will never know how high you can climb if you don’t even try. It is just the more time you spend outside of your comfort zone, the wider it grows. Start stretching yourselves.
The problem is not beyond us… I would love to quote few of my most favorite inspiring sentences of Bible: God will not allow any situation that is beyond your ability to come your way. The reason why God has allowed that situation to confront you, is because, He knows that you have what it takes to solve it. You are the only one that is ignorant of your capabilities. God knows what he deposited in you when He created you. Your ignorance has kept you bound and rooted in that problem for so long, but through His word, God is going to impart your life with light, shattering every form of darkness around you.
So friends be cooool, don’t worry about any problem, we are having guts to face that problem, try to stop worrying about past un-necessary worries and memories, and start being positive…will be back again in few days….
I hope the above things will definitely help you…..c u soon
